One theory is that the 20 somethings and teenagers of today (the target market for social media) are so focused on popularity is because of increased divorce rates. If you can’t rely on your family for the love and support you need, you look to others. They think, ‘Celebrities seem to be loved and get a ton of attention, I want that too!’

Then again, I’m only 21 so I can’t say if this is any different from generations past.

On the other hand, goodness is driven more for an internal desire — for personal accomplishment based on the true expression of yourself. So it may not be popular, but it will gain a following of people who admire it and what’s more, people will respect it, even if begrudgingly.

Van Gogh is not my favorite painter. Still, I can’t deny that his work is worth respecting due to it’s truely unique vision and master craftsmanship.

I think respect is the great gap between popularity and “goodness”. You’re being admired for something of substance.

Forget what Mike says about selling yourself for popularity first and then “goodness” second. Those people are called sellouts and disliked for a reason. Earn their respect the old-fahioned way (hard work, dedication, risk-taking, confidence, passion), accept criticism, and see the value in what you’ve done because even if they don’t like you, they think you’re still worth something.